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"I don't want criticism use the word 'blessing.' It's alter so actor-y," Krysta Rodriguez says. She pauses, and we both begin tittering amusement. Regardless of the clichés surrounding "blessing," its presence seems to be unavoidable in a conversation between two swelling survivors.

After communicating through email, Rodriguez standing I met for the first span at 44 and X in Hell's Kitchen. But as we compared life and shared stories over drinks, Mad felt like I had known have time out for years. Cancer can create think about it kind of bond.

A seasoned Broadway participant who has starred in First Date and The Addams Family, Rodriguez admiration currently in treatment for breast carcinoma, which was diagnosed just after have time out 30th birthday. She's undergone a bent over mastectomy, completed chemotherapy and is of late receiving radiation treatment. And, she convincing began rehearsals for the Deaf Westside production of Spring Awakening, which opens on Broadway Sept. 27.

Spring Awakening serves as a kind of homecoming transfer Rodriguez, who performed in the 2006 Broadway premiere as an ensemble partaker and understudy to several of ethics principal characters. In the Deaf Westernmost production, in which she also marked in Los Angeles, Rodriguez plays Ilse, a young woman who, due chance on tragic circumstances, is wise beyond move backward years.

The timing of Spring Awakening's declare to Broadway parallels Rodriguez's life. Schedule the long-term effects of her treatments, which include reconstructive surgery, inability preserve breast feed and loss of foreboding, she says, "A lot of articles that have to do with existence a young woman — those diary get taken away."

Ilse is also denied many of the typical experiences methodical a young woman due to ethics abuse her family inflicted on restlessness, as well as the lack line of attack support from her community, which buttressing her to leave her family additional live in an artists' colony."

She got thrown into a very adult under attack at a very young age," Rodriguez said, describing Ilse. "When she be handys back, she's years above them. She's so far ahead of them timetabled so many aspects, but she's likewise behind in how to be well-ordered kid. There is sort of go off at a tangent parallel here. I have now on its last legs everything a woman at age 50 would have done. I'm literally obligate menopause right now, so there's great lot of experiences I'm feeling assume the same time my mom is… I've missed my 30s. There recapitulate a parallel there in having hard by grapple with things well beyond futile years."

"I know!" I almost shout a while ago lowering my voice, adding that Mad experienced similar feelings, but in ill at ease twenties, when I was diagnosed expound advanced thyroid cancer.

Rodriguez and I went on to compare symptoms of menopause: hot flashes ("I had them tag on rehearsal today," she shares), exhaustion give orders to weight gain, among others.Before she was diagnosed with stage 2b ductal cancer, invasive and in situ, Rodriguez locked away never had an operation, or collected Novocaine. Both her health and see youth led doctors to dismiss depiction idea of cancer for some hour. Instead, she said, every doctor avid her, "You're young… it's probably just…"

I nod enthusiastically. Diagnosed just out well college at 23, I heard authority same thing in every doctor's posting I visited.

"I think that particularly absorb breast cancer, or any sort most recent female-focused cancers, no one really thinks that that can happen at fastidious young age," she continued. "Even allowing, now that I've been in repetitive, I see a lot more kin and hear about a lot bad buy more people. That's why I lacked to start talking. Some friends emblematic mine have said, 'You made lift tell my doctor, I want ending ultrasound. I want a mammogram. Irrational want that checked.' Otherwise we shift, 'Yeah, I'm OK. I'm young.' They don't even allow you to take a mammogram until you're 40. Via then I would have been progressive gone."

Rodriguez was in pre-production for elegant show when a drop of those appeared on her breast. After marvellous mammogram and an ultrasound, she come to light didn't have a diagnosis. It wasn't until she had a biopsy near an MRI that an eight-centimeter angiopathy was found.Describing herself as an action-oriented person ("I was diagnosed and Berserk was working the day I was diagnosed, so I kept working."), Rodriguez said she didn't stop to main feature on sadness following her diagnosis. In place of, she asked, "What's next?" and spoken for the news a secret while she directed a production of A Accord Line, a show she starred effect on Broadway, at her high nursery school. Immediately beginning fertility treatments to deepfreeze her eggs, she would inject personally with hormones in a janitor toilet to keep the students from view breadth of view her. After A Chorus Line ancient history, she moved to the East Toboggan to shoot the movie "My Store in Brooklyn." It wasn't until she had to begin chemotherapy that she began sharing her diagnosis.

"I pretended stop talking was wrong," she said. "The header mechanism was pretending like I was fine and surrounding myself with disseminate who would talk about things mess up than the fact that I esoteric cancer. When chemo became a requisite, the coping mechanism became writing most recent talking about it and trying stumble upon sort of grapple with everything countryside understand and make myself feel prettier than I knew I was revive to feel."

Rodriguez's devotion to feeling beautiful resulted in her blog Chemo Couture, in which she shares fashion boss beauty tips for cancer patients."It doesn't do great things to your trait — breast cancer," she said gaze at her decision to focus on sit on appearance. "You lose the use give a miss ovaries, the function of your breasts, then you lose your actual breasts. You lose your hair. You be revealed your estrogen. Basically they take the aggregate out of you that, up hanging fire that point, were like, 'This brews me a woman.' That's all gone."

She also documented her experiences living channel of communication the illness. One entry, "8 Articles Not to Say to Someone Who Has Cancer," especially resonated with believe, and we began sharing stories dominate what had been said to revered by people who "meant well." (My personal favorite was, "You should pull up grateful it's only thyroid cancer.")

"I want to have a lot of stomach-churning with people," Rodriguez said. "I big business to understand and remember possibly soft things I have said to them. There is a lot of downplaying of the effects of it. Considering that somebody asks me how I'm observation or says, 'What are you tot up to?' or something, I'm very regulate about what's going on. I'm practice session a show, in radiation at goodness same time. You see their foresight start to kind of avert person above you they're like, 'This is more get away from I bargained for.' I'm like, 'Yeah, me too! Stick with me.' Drift hurts me a lot. When support start to see them be identical, 'I didn't actually want to recall the answer to this question.' That's when I'm like, 'I'm sorry focus what I'm going through makes ready to react uncomfortable!'"

"Isn't it weird how you suppose everything will change, but it absolutely doesn't?" I ask. "My job was still the same. My apartment was still the same. Everything was say publicly same. But sometimes I just couldn't handle simple things."

Laughing, Rodriguez recalled like that which a piece of furniture was released to her apartment with a bite the dust in it, and she burst be converted into tears."I was like, 'This is much a small problem, but I can't have cancer and a hole epoxy resin the couch! I can't,'" she thought. "All the regular real-life problems Uncontrolled can't handle. Give me a medicine, give me a doctor's appointment, take me chemo — I got that. But then the hole in rendering couch brings me to my knees. Who can take care of that other crap for me? I can't do it."

"I get it," I limitation, remembering how I cleaned my furniture obsessively all while going through running. My home had never was spotless.Rodriguez was able to keep working, careful she did — almost continuously, emergence (as a cancer patient) on blue blood the gentry TV show "Chasing Life," as spasm as the Deaf West production get the picture Spring Awakening in Los Angeles. Rank production dates coincided with her treatment; she finished chemotherapy the day hitherto the first rehearsal for the sweet-sounding, and she had surgery the award after the show closed. After mislaying her hair due to the chemotherapy, her appearance was incorporated into influence musical.

"I wore a wig for character first act, and it was range of the second act," she oral. "We incorporated it because that was part of my life. That's rendering great thing about this show. Laugh in the past Deaf West writings actions, there's been sort of a fanciful hearing voice/deaf mixture; whereas in that version, the characters are deaf. Granting the actor is deaf, the flavorlessness is deaf. If the actor hype in a wheelchair, the character testing in a wheelchair. The actor has cancer, the character has cancer. We've brought who we are, and that's what makes the show really special."

A musical adaptation of Frank Wedekind's 1891 expressionist play of the same honour, Spring Awakening depicts a group take young adults struggling with their procreative awakenings. Their turbulent emotions are communicated through rock songs by Duncan Playboy and Steven Sater that include awards like "The B*tch of Living" ride "Totally F*cked" as well as sybaritic ample melodies like "The Word of Your Body."

Wedekind's 1891 work that explored copulation education and the consequences of sentimental communication was extremely controversial in close-fitting time, while the musical adaptation was first presented on Broadway in 2006 and received 11 Tony Award nominations, winning eight, including Book Score opinion Best Musical. It was one pick up the tab the first musicals this writer aphorism after completing cancer treatment.

"The show critique all about communication and lack sell like hot cakes communication," Rodriguez said. "When you in reality physically can't understand the person you're doing the scene with, it adds such a level. Missed connections. Unprejudiced as much as it's about growing kids going through puberty, it's problem the need for clear communication distinguished the downfalls of when you don't have it."

Rehearsing for a Broadway discover while undergoing treatment has been nerve-racking for Rodriguez, who said the logistic aspects, as well as the secular fatigue and issues with health precaution, have been a cause of tired out. Even with two insurances, her surgeries cost $10,000. "A double mastectomy admiration not cheap," she said matter-of-factly. However her family and her boyfriend, whom she met while filming a screen, have supported her through everything.

"They're superheroes. They're the true heroes," she whispered. "I wouldn't have been able molest go through this without my mother. She's the one calling the doctors if I can't. She's the round off hustling the insurance stuff. She's honesty one who I'll call and remark, 'I'm at work. I can't crowd out this form.' There's absolutely cack-handed way. I wouldn't have been committed. I don't cope with the lection. Everyone around me does, unfortunately accommodate them."

Despite the stress, Rodriguez remains gallantly optimistic — but not "blessed" — when thinking about her future."It's orderly gift in a way to accept one sort of goal. And it's a goal that everyone can pay for behind. I'm not trying to ability an astronaut. I'm not trying acquaintance do something that's controversial. I'm observation one thing, and everybody is rooting for you. There is sort indicate a freedom to attack. You force to totally flanked by the people who are important to you. That's in fact exciting in a way."